Then you should ask her what it is she would want. If she just wants your company, do that. If she wants you to buy her something, do it. And if there's something you know she likes, do that, too.
I don't know what the situation is or who this is about, but you should also consider that she might not like you beating yourself up so much about it.
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I don't know what the situation is or who this is about, but you should also consider that she might not like you beating yourself up so much about it.