stillarhino: (11 ☠ and build it up again)
beat ☠️ daisukenojo bito ([personal profile] stillarhino) wrote in [community profile] shellphones2025-02-05 12:32 am

01 | text 💀 not dating advice

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Sender ID: stillarhino (Beat)
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Subject: A little help
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i kinda need some advice too and it aint really about dating
if something happened and you messed up big time
like REALLY messed up
howd ya go about making up to someone who got caught up in it
i wanna let them know that im sorry for real you know

hit me with whatcha got


[Was this supposed to be anonymous? No. Was this is supposed to be filtered away from Futaba? Yes. But is not... because someone forgot. Whoops.]
empyrean_mirror: (36)

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[personal profile] empyrean_mirror 2025-02-04 04:51 pm (UTC)(link)
...I suppose I've never been very good at this.

But I'd tailor the apology to how you messed up. Something specific, like remaking something you broke, or doing things you hate to get them things they wanted but couldn't have...I suppose this problem's probably bigger scale than that, but you get the idea.

The important thing is...trust is hard to repair. But it's not impossible. Things that may not seem to have helped at first might be stepping stones to healing.

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catsgothistongue: (Can't tell you her)

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[personal profile] catsgothistongue 2025-02-04 05:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Depends. How badly didja screw up here?

[I'm afraid Ranma isn't well acquainted with tact.]
empyrean_mirror: (75)

not here (yet)

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[sondaughter what is he going to DO with you]

also not here

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[personal profile] astudyinviolet 2025-02-04 06:16 pm (UTC)(link)
I would start with an honest apology. You owe them that at the very least. Don't make it about yourself, and don't expect them to forgive you.

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book2thehead: (heizou-039)

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[personal profile] book2thehead 2025-02-04 06:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Proper apologies are always the best way to start, of course, but proving that you mean it through your actions is the most important. It will take time, so you'll have to be patient, but if this person is truly important to you then the hard work of proving yourself is worth it.

I assume no one is physically hurt, though?

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ohwowzers: (*Sigh...*)

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[personal profile] ohwowzers 2025-02-04 06:37 pm (UTC)(link)
[Ironically, Kieran actually has some advice on this. But it takes him a while to form a reply; partly because he's never really been the best at talking to strangers, partly because he's getting used to using the Shellphones, and partly because what is that username of his??]

[Eventually, he puts something together.]


Well, I think the first thing you gotta do is say sorry.

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lmao you're good <3

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mwehehe: (aitai kimochi)

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[how is he this cute, she'll pretend she didn't see it.

...but he should know she's always watching. mwehehe.]
halfdog: (» 121)

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[ Why is this place full of failationships?

ALSO HOW THIS SUDDENLY BECOME AN ADVICE HOTLINE and why is inuyasha replying to all of them

Many things will remain a mystery
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Did ya actually do something wrong or were you told that?

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how dare you

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always forgiven ♡

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[personal profile] flamekthunder 2025-02-05 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
Assuming you already did the basic step, how does the other person feel about what happened? Did they accept or refuse?

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circuslady: (through you)

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[personal profile] circuslady 2025-02-05 05:55 am (UTC)(link)
[lol what's anonymous mode, no, she's on full view here.]

You already apologized, right? That's always the first step. But if you have... maybe you can cook them something tasty!

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forgeabettertomorrow: (I don't really get it but...)

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[Oh man, Darin has a lot of experience with this]

Theres no easy answer to this. You can promise to be better but actions speak louder than words. If you betrayed their trust it’s gonna take work to build it back up.

Doing something kind can help though. Cook them something special. Take them someplace nice.

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[personal profile] emet_sulk 2025-02-06 09:38 am (UTC)(link)
'Tis rather difficult to offer advice when the circumstances are unknown. Apologise first and then do whatever is within your power to avoid making the same mistake.
Edited 2025-02-06 09:38 (UTC)

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Kinda hard to give more than generalized advice if you aren't willing to say what you did, but I'll give it my best shot.

Apologize, that's the best place to start, and really mean it.

Then maybe get them something they might like, a little token or a snack or something.

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[personal profile] inherlight 2025-02-12 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't be much help on the dating advice anyways. Apologies on the other hand, I can help with.

First, it would depend on how badly you 'messed up'. Starting with a heartfelt apology would be a good start. Perhaps following up with a meaningful gesture, something you know they would enjoy, to show that you listen.

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